getting it all out of the way

i'm not a big stress-er.
worrier yes.
but a person who oozes stress? not really.

i didnt stress once about college apps back in high school
nor did i particularly stress about grades in college
or even now on working, deadlines, grad school, etc etc.

(hahah if my friends beg to differ,
maybe my perception was one not of stress?)

anyways...
but i do slightly start stressing before i actually do it.
odd and wierdo i know.

for example:
2 weeks ago, i had a midterm, a huuuuugE paper, and some worksheets all due on the same day. i started worrying about it on monday and tuesday. actually started stressing with the feeling of paranoia, headaches, and not being able to breathe as well on about wednesday and thursday. but did i actually start on what i needed to do? not really. (totally not proud of it but true). i started on it on friday and it was due on monday. after i started on it, i was ok.

point:
i stress unnecessarily right before i actually do anything about it.

enter wedding plans

i am not "technically" engaged.
i do not have a ring.
my facebook status still states "in a relationship"
however, there is a lot of wedding talk around me.

my family. the boy's family. everybody.
and the most important thing.
we need to set a date.
and this thought is consuming me.
currently.
yep. that unnecessary stress.

the date is still up in the air.
i want to accommodate as much family members possible.
many wedding bloggers state to doing what is right for us
but i loveeeeeeee my big, crazy, loud family
and i want everyone to be there.

my cousin got married last year in maryland
and there were 28 family members together
from atlanta, korea, michigan, and vegas.
i had the best time.
we ate tons, drank, fished, went sightseeing,
laughed, gossiped, etc.
greatness.

i want my day to embody that
and i need a date where everyone can come.
maybe july? june?